There are some great guys out there, and I know you’d
love to know how you can meet up with one.
I’d like to share with you ideas on how you can attract a great man with minimal effort.
There really are men who know how to treat a woman; they
open doors for her, listen intently to her and have
manners and class.
To add to this, there are men who are successful,
handsome and charming.
Actually, you might give your left arm to attract such
a man, so your first question is:
How do I do this?
** First Impressions **
First impressions do count, so make a good impression
during the first few dates.
Dress in such a way as to accentuate your femininity. Be
sure to wear a fragrance that is appealing, but don’t send
him running with a terribly strong stench.
Wear your hair in such a way that you look and feel
beautiful. You are trying to make an exceptional first
Get the guys looking your way. Don’t be afraid to show off
what you’ve got and carry a sense of confidence.
First impressions aren’t everything, but they do help get
the ball rolling in many cases.
** Be Yourself **
Make every effort to be yourself. Don’t try to put on an
artificial behavior just to get his attention.
Love yourself enough to be comfortable being you. If you
try to be someone you are not, you are not being fair to
you or the man.
Be confident in who you are.
A man wants a woman who is not afraid to be herself
because if a woman is always looking at a man to define
her, she will be needy and clingy, which will normally
push a man away.
** Reel Him in With Some Creativity **
Do something that will keep you in a man’s memory
throughout the day, even when he is not with you.
When you meet, make him feel like the most important
person in the world. Be genuinely excited about his
presence and delight in what he talks about.
Many women are too busy talking and neglect to let a man
speak. Slow down, and allow two-way communication to
Wear an outfit that shows off your curves, no matter
what your body type. Men love a confident woman who can
pull off sexy attire.
Also, wear a sexy fragrance that he is not able to forget.
Flirt with him and get close to him throughout your date.
Let him know that you are desirable and interested in him.
Be original and unique.
A great man will be able to appreciate your creativity and
will be more apt to think about you after the date.
** Air of Mystery **
Try to leave a man guessing about some aspects of your
personality. You don’t need to be an open book.
Don’t tell him your life story on the first few dates and
for goodness sake, don’t tell him all of your problems
and how all of your other relationships were so awful.
Leave a bit about you a mystery. Men can be greatly
attracted to a woman who is mysterious and keeps them
Make him feel he is dating someone special and that
you are unique.
You need to be honest with him, but certain revelations
can wait until you know him better.
** Let Him Be Himself **
You can attract a great man by not attempting to change
him. Leave him as he is, and accept him the way he is.
He will become all the more enamored with such a woman
because men have usually been with women who try to
change them, which is a big turn-off.
Get to know his social circle, and be open to getting to
know his friends. Let him know that you are in favor of
him having friends and having a social life outside of
Men don’t want to have to choose one or the other, but
they want to be free to have friends AND a girlfriend.
** Believe the Best **
There are great men out there. Try not to prejudge the
men that you meet based on the past.
Give every man a fresh, clean slate and believe the best
about him. Remember to be yourself and allow a man to
From there, you will be able to determine if you are a
fit. So go on out there!